Mish is tending bar today in the dVerse Poets Pub ~ Her inspiration? Mel Robbins and the philosophy she follows!
it took me forty years
to stop rearranging my soul
to make other people comfortable
years of ironing opinions flat
serving apologies warm
nodding at nonsense
i spent too many years
trying to earn gold stars from folks
who could not find their own joy
and then somewhere between
reading glasses and forgetting
why I walked into the kitchen
i discovered the holiest phrase
gifted to women
"let them"
let them whisper
let them think i may laugh too hard that
i'm too old for bright colors, bold patterns
here i stand wrinkled, wiser
harder to shame
easier to delight
let them misunderstand me
underestimate me
roll their eyes
i am unapologetically myself
after so many years
"let them"
Wonderful! Good for you, Helen! I love this poem.
ReplyDeleteI am grinning in recognition, Helen. Yup. We finally reach that point. I love this poem more than I can say.
ReplyDeleteBravo! Wonderfully expressed and exactly the right attitude to convey - Jae
ReplyDeleteSo well-expressed, Helen. I love the phrases ‘rearranging my soul’, ‘years of ironing opinions flat’ and ‘unapologetically myself’.
ReplyDeleteWell-said, Helen! 👏 I think it's true as we get older, we often have the courage to just be ourselves and not care what others thinkg. I love "years of ironing opinions flat"--such a great image.
ReplyDeleteIndeed... we need to care less about such nonsense
ReplyDeleteThis poem filled my heart with joy, Helen. This is so very true!! Let them think what they want!!! 💜
ReplyDeleteAmen!! This resonates and I wish I had written it myself. Love your humour, dear lady. :)
ReplyDeleteGreat advice for every woman of all ages. Lovely poem.
ReplyDeleteA strong write Helen 👏 I sometimes feel envious of those who figured it out earlier in the lives....but maybe they cannot be poets! 👍
ReplyDeleteSo well said, Helen!! This empowering write resonates.
ReplyDeleteLet them. Yes! Holiest phrase that frees. I live this poem Helen. Amazing ! Xo, selma
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