Sunday, March 31, 2024

Remembering ~~~

A Haibun I composed in 2021 ~~ 



A bit of family history is in order …. Mother couldn’t carry a tune in a bucket and, I’m embarrassed to say, my sisters and I sometimes told her so. Daddy could play any instrument handed to him. He delighted us at the piano, played “by ear” whatever tune we requested. He had a lovely voice and perfect pitch. I inherited my father’s musical ability ... his innate desire to perform. He passed away when I was sixteen going on seventeen.

From an early age, music was part of our family reality, I learned to read music at nine, harmonized at ten, directed a church ‘junior’ choir at thirteen, I was a ‘ham’ who loved performing. { No doubt I shared a “smell of the greasepaint, roar of the crowd" thing with my Dad. } 

I played flute in school bands from fourth grade into high school, won tons of medals, sang in school choirs, gigs onstage with my gal-pal trio, you name it, I did it. Daddy kept his emotions 'close to the vest' but I know he was thrilled I had inherited his musical ability. We didn't have much time ~

remembering him

his enduring influence   

thankful for his gifts






9 comments:

  1. Some gifts keep on giving... And when the giving comes from a beloved parent and the gift is something we can share, the whole thing is extra delightful. I bet his spirit watches always (telling all the angels, "Yep, that is my girl").

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  2. What a beautiful text, it creates emotions! Be well and have a good month🌷🌼!

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  3. Dearest Helen,
    You truly continued to let your Father live on in all your music related things. He no doubt has been smiling proudly down from heaven—many times.
    Well, like my Dad who sang for 80 years and got his Royal Award for that, I'm singing in the chancel choir and we had a busy Holy Week and Easter performance with orchestra. Feels good and I continue singing Mom's voice as a 1st soprano (Dad was a 1st Tenor) after she sang for some 30 years. My Paternal Grandmother sang and my Mother–in–law and Pieter sang in the Operette and of course in the Church choir as well.
    But I'm the only one out of seven children...
    Hugs,
    Mariette

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  4. A lovely glimpse into your life. You have sweet memories of your dad, mine died when I was six and I barely remember him.

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  5. Beautiful, Helen. And you kept on shining your whole life.

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  6. I understand that it was a very special bond. However I was like your mum, the only non-musically-gifted one in the immediate family, so I envy you but sympathise with her.

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  7. Beautiful memories of your Dad and his gift to you. " If music be the food of love...play on...give me excess of it"...Will's words (not mine:) Pleased you are having such a lovely time with your family and friends. Happy Easter !...Rall

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  8. What a beautiful gift to pass on, one that can transcend time and matter.

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  9. A gift passed on from a parent is truly special.

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I appreciate each of you and the comments you leave ~~ thanks so much.